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Connoisseuring Ndu'm


I met my younger self for coffee
I met my younger self for coffee. But there was no younger self. I am her. I have pored over countless writings about meeting the...
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Feb 162 min read


The Vanilla Dream: Why black men prefer white women?
The interplay between gaze, power, and representation has long shaped the cultural landscape, particularly in the context of Black men...
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Sep 19, 20242 min read


What Are You Doing?
Discovering just a few days ago that my website had been down sent me into a spiral and was a jarring wake-up call. It was not an...
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Aug 12, 20242 min read


God dey? Abi God no dey?
It is a very conflicting experience to contemplate that you do not want to believe in God anymore, but you also love God, and you also...
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Jul 2, 20243 min read


RELATIONSHIP RANKING
I was immediately drawn in by the opening lines of "The vexing problem of the 'Medium Friend'" by Lisa Miller in the New York Times. I am...
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Jun 29, 20242 min read


NOT STRANGERS
In the tender embrace of love's embrace We are alive Nestled in the cradle of our love I long to dwell forever there Our love is the...
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Jun 12, 20241 min read


My Truth About Long-Distance Relationships
Long-distance relationships primarily revolve around mental focus and dedication. They demand significantly more effort than...
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Jun 10, 20243 min read


Raison d'être (Notes On Love) 1
To declare that love is my God might appear to be a daring and bold statement, but isn’t God fundamentally love? My feelings for love are...
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Jun 8, 20242 min read


TIERS
Missing has always been a consistent state of my mind I miss I feared to be deeply buried in the past I feared that perhaps, my...
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Jun 5, 20241 min read


THE ONE SECOND AGO
THE ONE SECOND AGO Now I know Life is a passing of everything An inexorable procession of moments I am so far away from one second ago I...
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Jun 5, 20241 min read


VAGINA AND SPERM STUFF
The complexity of female reproduction has led me to reflect on the significance of our creator’s intended purpose. My frequent musings...
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Jun 4, 20243 min read


PROMISE-FULL
Every Morning, I open my eyes, and I await good fortune. So tranquil, my promise-full mornings its source a mystery to me - Elusive,...
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May 26, 20241 min read


I Hate Humility.
SUBTEXT: Dear fellow life-forms, Imagine If I cared. There are just nonsensical components of social conformities that do not take much...
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May 12, 20243 min read


Purest Bliss Of My Cognitive Dissonance
There’s not a lot that truly matters, -in the plainest form of my writing, nothingness is our basis. Nothing in our universe is...
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Apr 29, 20241 min read


So What If People Want To USE You: The Scale Of Relevance
I am having a difficult time, focusing on solving linear algebra questions today, in preparation for my final exam, so let’s discuss my...
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Apr 19, 20243 min read


What was, What is, And What if
This is an accountability letter to myself. Writing this blog post has brought me out of my funk -Bye Bye Depression- WHAT WAS, The past...
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Mar 24, 20244 min read


The Beauty In The Chaos
Primal to our being, companionship rests within us as a compulsive desire. Women, the maestros of camaraderie propel trends at a speed...
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Mar 7, 20244 min read


Why it is important to be a fan: The domino effect
My frequent musings on the transformative power of art take up so much space in my mind. I reflect deeply on the significance of...
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Feb 29, 20243 min read


TO DO LIST
Too many of us don’t live on our terms, a truly lamentable reality. With this overstimulating world, there’s so much damn noise, plenty...
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Feb 19, 20242 min read


SOCIALIZATION HAS RUINED LOVE FOR US
You know, Navigating the journey of a good life is fundamentally centered in the presence of Love. Sometimes I imagine the world going...
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Feb 15, 20244 min read
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